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What Type of Love Do You Deserve?

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“  We accept the type of love that we feel we deserve.” Often times when we are mistreated we get upset and say, “Why would this person treat me this way?” or “Why does that person continuously cause me heartache and pain?”    When in fact we should be asking ourselves the following:   Why am I allowing this person to treat me this way? Why is this treatment acceptable to me?    It’s was a choice...it was your choice.  You have allowed this.    I know this will sting a little bit but it’s so necessary to grow. It’s all in love  ❤ It stung for me too and it was a tough pill to swallow. But I’m so grateful for the revelation.    Be gentle with yourself and take some time to process and reflect.   When you are emotionally ready ask yourself the following:  Why am  I  accepting  bad treatment from this person?    Why do I accept less?     Why do I feel that I that I deserve inferior treatment?     Why haven’t I formed boundaries with this person?    Do I have feelings of low self worth? An